You're Only 18 and It's Probably Not Going to Last Anyway.

I think one of the first things I want to sink my teeth into because there's something very fascinating. Because we don't talk about grief enough in general. Every circumstance that warrants grief is different and to try to paint it with a broad brush is inherently disrespectful of what individual people go through. So from what I remember when I was 18, it felt to me very invalidating when someone would say, oh, you know, you guys were just young. It probably wouldn't have worked out. And like you said, emotionally, it's not very helpful. When you are actively in love with someone and something happens to them, they die, something happens in a way you will always be