The Importance of Role Play

I'm not nervous about my partner seeing me mess up. It really is that idea of like, oh, I have to be good at something right away. And in every aspect, it does hurt me in some way. So when we name things, it allows us to then choose if we want to continue kind of operating within them or not. And that's really the power there. You touched on a few things that I really are important to name. One, the performative aspect of sex that again is kind of the status quo. There's some level that all of us at least in the US have absorbed about what sex is supposed to look like. But most of us have something