Why Young Men Shouldn't Search for Someone to Complete Their Relationships

Peterson says young men shouldn't seek to find someone to complete them. He talks like really contradictory too because he's saying it as if like, well, why do you want to get an intimate partner? Well, what makes you think that they're going to like you? And then he's coming back to you need to work on yourself before you do that in order to what? Because ultimately, what he's saying is work on yourself in order to be of value to a partner. It's just such a weird way to say these things and pointlessly long.