How to Stay in Balance When You're Stressed

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If you are the pieace keeper, you're very dialed into not wanting there to be conflict. Or you could be the chameleon, where you're very impacted, buy what others want. And so when i'm with you, jonathan, if you like that, then i'm like that too. That's a disordered boundary style. To have that still be primary when you're out of balance, is to have ok boundaries when life is easy. They really, it really gets revealed when we're under a lot of pressure.

This has been a year that has tested our boundaries on nearly every level. Work, friendship, family, community, geography, politics, religion, social issues, love, and wellbeing. Even our own inner boundaries with technology. It’s like we’re being asked to draw lines, all day, every day. And, our ability to do just that, well, it just may mean the difference between peace and calamity.

Question is, how? How do you create and uphold boundaries that are clear, healthy, and constructive, while also acknowledging the nuance, kindness, and understanding this moment demands? That’s what we’re diving into in today’s special compilation episode on boundaries, featuring key elements of conversations we’ve had with therapists, bestselling authors, and boundary experts, Nedra Glover Tawwab and Terri Cole. You’re going to want to take notes on this episode, what you learn may not only help breathe more easily and reclaim space and peace, it just might also change your life.

You can find Nedra at: Website | Instagram | Discover Your Secondary Gain

You can find Terri at: Website | Instagram | Discover Your Secondary Gain | The Terri Cole Show

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