I'm the Only One Who Can Make It Happen

I don't I never use the terms of objectivism or almost never maybe when working with objectives but even they're not as much as you think. In some cases I deliberately do less of it because I want them to be thinking about it afresh and not just importing the objectives lingo right so I don't experience it as resistance to selfishness. And so I'm like my life matters and this is you know I only have so many years on this earth and why am I any less? It's different but it takes a different form sorry yeah. You wouldn't recognize it from one client to the next in terms of the kind of vocabulary we develop together around that idea.