Why Don't You Say What You Didn't Do?

In a relationship that is not secure, i will defend against that. I actually believe on some level that maybe you really don't care about me,. That i'm not loved, or more, that i'm not lovable. By putting it out there and being vulnerable, youre saying, us is more valuable than you know. And when you hold it in and you're unwilling to be vulnerable and you're just criticising, isn't that saying that right now, at this particular moment, i'm valuing myself more than i’m valuing this relationship? No, i would put it to you differently. It's not about being selfish. It's actually about feeling not