For one patient, it feels like i'm losing that day in my life. And if i lose too much, there'll be nothing left of me. One twin brother was a successful event organizer. He once told frost that he had lost a folder containing his notes from something he'd organized. When he found the folder again, his memories returned. If your mind works that way, why would you ever throw away that folder? Most people would look at this and see a mess,. But then he said, really, it's layered and complex.