How to perform EFT step-by-step

Share your TTC story ✨

Healing Your Fertility with EFT Tapping: Calm Your Nervous System + Release Stress

Hey beauty 💛

Today we’re diving into one of my ride-or-die tools for calm, clarity, and fertility flow: EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) — a.k.a. emotional acupuncture. It looks a little woo, feels a little weird at first… and it works. This is the tool that helped me through anxious seasons, postpartum chaos, and those fun moments when Jack’s melting down and I'm just in crazy overwhelm. If your nervous system has been living in Stress City, this one’s for you.

And here’s why this convo matters for you. If your body doesn’t feel safe, it won’t prioritise conception. Nervous system regulation is the foundation that makes your nutrition, supplements, cycle tracking, and even IVF actually land. EFT is one of the fastest ways I know to send your body the “you’re safe now” signal.

Inside this ep, we cover:

• What EFT actually is and why I call it “emotional acupuncture”
• The tapping points and a simple step-by-step so you can start today
• How to use EFT for fertility anxiety, IVF stress, fear of miscarriage, cravings, pain and sleep
• The before-and-after check-in that shows your progress in real time
• Client stories, my first experience with tapping, and why I still work with an EFT practitioner for deeper layers

✨ Why this matters for fertility

When your nervous system is stuck in fight or flight, cortisol steals from your sex hormones and your body hits pause on reproduction. EFT calms the amygdala, lowers cortisol, and helps you shift into rest-digest-reproduce mode. Translation: better ovulation, steadier cycles, deeper sleep, happier digestion… and a body that feels safe to conceive.

Resources mentioned:

• 💛 Free Emotional Acupuncture Quick-Start Guide — tapping points, sample script, and my go-to phrases
• https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/eft

My resources + ways to connect:

• 🌿 Ultimate Preconception Checklist
  👉 https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/preconception-checklist
  
  
• 🤖 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity
  👉 https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ftgqt3aylm
  
  
• 📲 Instagram: @abi.wilde
  👉 https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde
  
  

💛 If this episode gave you a little exhale, hit follow, leave a cheeky review, and pass it to a bestie who’s ready to regulate, soften, and call in her baby. 

✨ Want to go deeper, mama? Slide into my DMs and we’ll line up a personalised EFT session that fits your schedule.

If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next.

And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing.

Until next time, mama x