"I just feel like you'll agree that is spectacular spectacular it is spectacular and it's so I'm so glad we're talking about this because I can the last like five or six months I've been talking about narcissism so much in my work," he says. "People are so much more responsive and people are moving the narcissism." The goal of the goal of therapy in general at least the way she looks at it Freud said it as well, according to Dr. Gary Wasserstein.