"We're dealing with narcissism. Most of us have experienced different forms of abuse," she says. "I don't even know how I stayed after even brought that up." She was asked in court, 'How will you co-parent with this lovely trans woman over here?' In a support group for women whose husbands cross dress, only two had their husbands transitioned. None of the women who were divorced in that support group, none of their women shared custody with their ex.