In this episode, my guest is Dr. Martha Beck, Ph.D., a Harvard-trained sociologist, bestselling author, and one of the world’s foremost experts on personal exploration and development. 

Dr. Beck shares specific frameworks and practices to tap into your unique and deepest desires, core truths, and best life direction—all elements that comprise your authentic self. She also explains how to align your work and relationships of all kinds with your true self and how to embrace the discomfort and process of leaving unhealthy relationships.

We discuss how to deal with negative thoughts and emotions, grapple with societal norms, and improve body awareness to gauge your inner truth. We also discuss codependency and self-abandonment - and how to exit and recover from these experiences. 

By the end of the episode, you will have learned numerous practical tools to access your best self and live a richly fulfilling life. 

Access the full show notes for this episode at hubermanlab.com.

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Timestamps

00:00:00 Dr. Martha Beck

00:01:34 Sponsors: BetterHelp, Helix Sleep & LMNT

00:05:34 Tool: Perfect Day Exercise

00:15:31 “Clear Eyed”, Male vs. Female

00:23:31 Family & Work; Directed Attention & Miracles

00:30:21 Sponsor: AG1

00:32:10 Unease, Restlessness & Guilt; Life Worth, Fear

00:37:22 Accessing the Subconscious; Compassionate Witness Self

00:46:16 Finding Self, Suffering, Anxiety; Tool: “KIST”, Self-Parenting

00:54:01 Self, Radiance, Death; Awakening

00:59:14 Suffering & Compassionate Attention

01:02:10 Challenging Internal Thoughts, Understanding Truth, Body & Mind;

01:08:44 Sponsor: Waking Up

01:10:20 Western Society & Pressure

01:18:30 Tool: Sensing Truth in Body; Meditation, “Stopping the World”

01:25:02 Energy, Magnetoreception, Pet’s Death

01:33:49 Lying to Ourselves, Addiction

01:38:18 Tool: “Integrity Cleanse”, Lies; The Light

01:47:32 Relationship with Loss; Love, Self-Abandonment & Codependency

01:55:10 Romantic Relationships; Jobs & Family

02:02:06 Hurting Others, Relationship Imbalance

02:06:55 Tool: True Empathy

02:11:26 “Happiness is an Inside Job”, Codependency

02:18:58 Live Your Joy, Western Society

02:24:41 Relationships, Love & Integrity, “Feeling Good By Looking Weird”

02:30:42 “I Like It!”, Punk Rock Music, Love

02:34:24 Honesty & Essential Self; Helping People & Healers

02:42:12 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter

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