Dating and Romance - Is Love the Primary Focus?

I want to ask both of you about the role resentment play in how we interact with dating and romance. You can see how loneliness gets turned into resentment which is directed at women. It justifies a worldview where it's like you will have status as a man if you just dominate women enough. And then there's also this kind of like gaslighting, all-outh bombing, breadcrumb and ghostingWhich again makes resentment and fear the basis on which heterosexual men and women interact. How do you think we break out of it? I'm taking Victorin just because I'm thinking of the book by Hallie Rubin found the five  which is an amazing look at the lives of the