What's It Like Organizing an Indian Wedding?

The wedding of a girl in india is a lot more expensive than a boy. You pay for the wedding, firstly, and secondly, even though is a bandyo, still have to give a lot of gifts. People don't expect it. The girls don't want to take it with them. They can't sort of accommodate all of that. But yet, as parents, there is a mind set that this much we need to give,. So one ends up giving things for the house, your electronic gadgets, your micro waves - which are hand-woven. And you have to sort of horse all the guests who come in, pay for their hotels, sometimes for their coming