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The Gray Area with Sean Illing cover image

ICYMI: Julia Galef

The Gray Area with Sean Illing

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How to Keep Your Identity From Become an Extension of Charity

I think there are ways to reduce the amount of effort it takes over time by like externalizing things and kind of building habits that become more automatic, but it's still going to be some extra cognitive overhead. Having an identity built around being a good and virtuous person who is always charitable to others does seem like the kind of thing I would expect to distort your judgments about other people's motivations. But having an identity of someone who is unafraid to look reality in the face, even if the truth isn't necessarily flattering or convenient or validating, will likely nudge your judgment in useful directions. People really do work all the time in their present day with this sort of jaded pessim

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