What Do You Have Them Do First?

When men come to you, who are right in the midst of it, what do you have them do first? Breathe. Because by time they they call me,. You know, men don't reach out for help until the guts are kind of dripping on the emergency rolin floor, yes. And so at that point, they're hyper ventilating, their heart rates like one 80. They've already lost ten or 15 pounds, and theyve been crying a lot. It's not what has me feel loved or cared for or wanted. It's what has me start to feel like i'm being analyzed or seen as a science experiment.