Relational Wonderfulness and Masturbation

"It's not always going to be the spouse's job to satisfy the other spouse," she says. "We don't have to be in the same willingness of eroticism to still be relationally willing, right? And so, and every now and then leaning into relational willingness does start something." 'I can't tell you how many times I've been like, yeah, okay, let's have a quick E'