Should I Move Forward With Confronting Her About the Past Abuse?

If your expectation is that she's going to apologize, then I would say there's no sense pursuing this any further. Is it worth communicating that message if you're not going to get any kind of response out of it or any kind of positive response from her? "I want you to know that you had an effect," the author writes in a letter sent to his ex-partner after he was sexually abused as a child. The writer also shares some tips on how to deal with anger management and dealing with other people who have gone through similar experiences.