How Do You Get People to Want What They Need?

I think what you're talking about will make people society relationships better, and being more reflective or at the very least pausing before they react. Any ideas about from a behavioral or any other standpoint, how do you get people to want what they need? I speak more on listening around the world than in America because Americans by and large want to be listened to, they just don't want to listen,. well, I mean when I was practicing as a psychotherapist, I would generally be a lot.