Seven Ways to Build Character in a Marriage

Don't stuff things. Don't keep a scorecard. Write in a journal, learn to communicate so you can solve your differences peacefully and find a counselor at the time of discord. Move in the direction of gentleness and peacemaking and self-control and try not to overreact. Number six, never make a life-changing decision in the midst of drama, depression or difficulty. Wait until life settles down. Remember that marriage is a lifelong legacy. It's hard to get back from.