Shifting the Paradigm of Parenting

We have to shift the paradigm where children understand and they read it off the facial expression, the body language and the tone and voice of their parents, teachers and teachers. That's the shift, the primary shift that we have to make. So the kids don't flow through the system, always feeling tolerated. Do you know how many kids tell me? I felt like I was on permanent probation. Maybe we're watching is the KGB here, but watching you. Why don't they come and say, Shae, I just want you to know we're loving you. Because there's a day when people will not be able to do things for themselves."