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Porn and the Relationship
Porn was a way to enact his resentment that he didn't want the exposure, the critique, the pressure. He came out of a system where his needs always should matter less in his own family. And so it's easy then to feel like, i'm not supposed to bring my thoughts and feelings. But then, of course, culturally, we double down on the men and the pornography like, you know, this just makes you a rotten, hedonistic, evil person. There are women who absolutely look at porn, look at it a lot, feel a lot of the guilt and shame and don't get the focus, actually. In some ways, i actually think that kind