"I find humor to be most useful is actually when it's nestled that close to the awful," she says. "It's a profound coping skill and I often say, levity is a spiritual virtue." Her brother died of suicide after 18 years with his wife. A poem called Dressing for the Burial was inspired by her own experience.

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