"I was molested as a child, and that's ok. I find sometimes wemen put away too much pressure on themselves to hear things that they think will progress a relationship," she said. " understand everything in its own time, and it's not always a reflection of some broken thing."
Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.