How does a child become confident? Caby crish, i guess so don't answer theoretically, just start saying whatever comes to your mind. It's a just like building confidence within like success. Like, if i was successful at school, i'd have more confidence. I like the phrase building an and the interesting thing is, i don't think it just comes from success, right? How did you know to go to your room when your dad came home drunk? So, how did youknow to go toyour room when your father came home drunk?" "I remember ling situations a family gong to the bar, like when ils in england, in su yes," says