How Doe Ethically Option Access to the Hive Mind?

We are ancestors of the people who were wired to expect bad things, or to pay more attention to bad things. And i think that that's a lot of what's going on here too, is that you the five % of extreme, of the political extremes on both sides,. They're basely leading a civil war against one another and making the rest of us feel like we have to pick aside in that the world is shifting in one way or the other. How doe ethically option access to the hive mind if we acknowledge that it is a very loud minority of shit disturbers? I don't want my kid to get infected by some super subtle ai amplified racis garbage me