Fighting as a Fight Response, You Bully Love Out of People and Freeze Flighting

We were raised in an environment where love was this precious, very limit resource that flickered on and off. And sometimes the source of love could also be a source of life threatening danger. So the co dependent fawn response will go deep and will cling. I claim i cling it will, it will try to sit in you as deeply as it can. Because not only is it a means of securing love. It's a means of safety. To not do it is really to let go of the life raft. The chin is important. Stop the emotional flashback, raise the awareness of what you 're doing...I like solutions that are bordering on so simple that they're almost done