Are You Trying to Control What You Can't?

I think that it gives people a different way to sort of think about this, and not sort of a stressful, oh god, i'm a horrible person because i can't accomplish my goals. I've had so many people say to me, where i thought i wanted to be in five years would have been miserable,. But instead, what i wanted to do is, i determined that i actually wanted to do this. And if you live life experientially, when you're gat in new insights,  you end up in a completely different direction.