There are kinks that very much play on like racist dynamics and i was wondering what your thoughts i'm like of people exploring those. Also the fetishization of bIPOC people based on their race is a really big one where we make assumptions about what people might like or what they want to be treated like. There's so much of our humanity that has to be almost contained within this erotic space for it to be safe. After care is such a huge thing because you're a person first and then a kingster second even if those things are intertwined.