Hope and Miracles: Supporting Young Single Adults

Brandon Doman was born in Salt Lake City, Utah, and graduated from Skyline High School. He was quarterback for Brigham Young University Football and then for the San Francisco 49ers. Brandon has since been BYU Football’s quarterbacks coach and currently offensive coordinator. He is also president and co-owner of Leap Innovations, developing and manufacturing trailer hitches, precast decorative concrete landscape products, outdoor basketball hoops, pickleball nets, and outdoor lighting. Brandon is married to Alisha Barker and they have six children, ages nine through 23. He currently serves as stake president of the Alpine Utah YSA Stake.

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Brandon talks about the parallels between athletic and church leadership as a YSA stake president, and the principles that translate from sports to his current church role, emphasizing service and love in his leadership approach.

The conversation delves into the impact of Brandon’s high school coach, Roger Dupaix, and his unique coaching style, which instilled work ethic, consistency, and attention to detail. Brandon shares how these principles seamlessly transitioned to his college football experience at BYU under the legendary coach Lavell Edwards. He illustrates Lavell’s unwavering leadership, delegation style, and the environment of trust he fostered among his coaches.

Brandon reflects on his experience as a counselor in a married student ward bishopric while still playing at BYU—an early calling that provided valuable spiritual growth and a crucial perspective. Currently serving as a stake president for a young single adult stake, Brandon shares the unique aspects of this calling, including the transition to having young adults in all leadership positions. He notes the challenges faced by young adults today and how the stake strives to create a supportive and spiritually nourishing environment.

The discussion explores the specifics of leading a YSA stake, including the geographic considerations and the collaborative approach with family stakes in calling bishops. Brandon emphasizes the role of the bishop and his wife as examples and guides for the young adults. He also discusses the dynamic with his counselors and the focus on temple ordinances and training. Brandon shares key principles, such as prioritizing the most important aspects and the constant need to adapt and learn. He highlights the valuable training provided by church leadership, the importance of finding and gathering all individuals, and his belief in the divine potential of each young adult to receive a full inheritance.

00:00:00 – Introduction to YSA Leadership and Transition
00:03:24 – Brandon Doman’s Early Faith Development and Family Influence
00:06:03 – Family Challenges and the Pursuit of Football Scholarships
00:07:30 – The Role of Sports and Parental Involvement in Childhood
00:13:05 – Influence of High School Coach Roger Dupe and His Principles
00:15:49 – Transition to BYU Football and Lavell Edwards’ Coaching
00:20:48 – A Leadership Lesson from Lavell Edwards’ Consistency
00:23:19 – Lavell Edwards’ Delegation and Trust in His Coaches
00:24:53 – Early Church Leadership as a BYU Quarterback
00:28:30 – Calling as a Stake President for Young Single Adults
00:33:15 – Challenges and Needs of Young Adults in Today’s World
00:37:57 – Orienting Bishops in Young Single Adult Wards
00:39:39 – The Role of Bishops and Their Wives as Examples
00:41:26 – Dynamics with Stake Counselors and Focus on Temple Ordinances
00:43:10 – Key Leadership Principles Learned as Stake President
00:48:12 – Hope and Encouragement for Those Worrying About Young Adults
00:54:54 – The Importance of Gathering and Finding Everyone

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