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#68: How to Talk About Sex with Vanessa & Xander Marin

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How to Feel Desired and Wanted

The first step that you need to start with is identifying what makes you feel desired and wanted. And if your partner doesn't know the ways that work for you, then they're going to feel that nervousness and that anxiety not really wanting to approach you with that energy. The second conversation is connection. What do we need to feel connected? And the third one is desire. WhatDo we need to be turned to get turned on? It's really about trying to uncover like, what are the things that make me feel most connected to you?"

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