How Do You Prescribe Yourself All the Things That You Need to Do?

I feel like can we change the question is I have the same answer. The hard thing about self work is that it takes a lot of time. And maybe sometimes you're putting in less effort into other things as a result because you're working so hard on changing this thing that's going to impact everything. Then slowly, slowly. Nobody notices until it's completely different. Sometimes I used to struggle, like, I want to change so bad. It was my unconscious taking all this input from all these people, processing. And one day it just reached a decision that, like, sent over to my conscious mind. You must have had that thought process for so many months before you actually left