Sally Kohn: I completely agree that self consciousness is the enemy and self confidence is the ally of curiosity. She says she dislikes curious 85-year-old people because it just feels like a disrespectful way to be a human. How can you develop curiosity in others? And how can you grow or build it in yourself?Kohn: If you're not naturally inclined, if you don't have the confidence and so on, they are difficult to overcome.