The Difference Between Happiness and Meaningfulness

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When i was caretaking for my parents a you know, it wasn't fun. But when i look back on it now, i thought, well, i'm a better person for that. It makes me feel like i i have a more meaningful, purposeful life. People do things cause they think they're the right thing to do. That's an example f what you're talking about. And i think a theory of psychology that doesn't take into account such motivations is really inadequate.

We go to movies that make us cry, or scream, or gag. We poke at sores, eat spicy foods, immerse ourselves in hot baths, run marathons. Some of us even seek out pain and humiliation in sexual role-play. Why do we so often seek out physical pain and emotional turmoil? Where do these seemingly perverse appetites come from? In his latest book, The Sweet Spot: The Pleasures of Suffering and the Search for Meaning, Bloom aims to understand how people find meaning in their lives, and, moreover, to explore what he calls, “the sweet spot” — the proper balance between pleasure and suffering. As one of the world’s leading psychologists, drawing on groundbreaking findings from psychology and brain science, Bloom shows how the right kind of suffering sets the stage for enhanced pleasure.