There's a lot of failure porn going out there, right? People like really talking about how great failing is and stuff like that. And actually, no, most people can't afford failures. They don't talk about the financial cushions they had that insulated them from a failure. Most people are lying about first of all, how many times they failed, or they exaggerate their failures,. "The truth is failure feels sickening. It's not fun to fail"