The Antidote to Feminism

Is a romantic relationships kind of an antidote to feminism, do you think a little bit? Well, this is something I've thought about a ton since starting to write and talk about these things in the last couple of years. To turn a woman off of men and off of love, it's got to take a lot of abuse and grinding down. And women are so romantic in their beings that, what am I trying to say?