Asking earnest questions about where people are going that help them discover the truth is the the way to go. And treating this here's here's uh two similarities in life so you know, I wrote about leadership strategy and tactics one of my favorite methodologies for training people Is putting them in leadership positions. You give them ownership and it's a positive thing It's the same methodology that I have for kids, which is if you treat kids like an adult It gives them responsibility. It makes them step up.