i suspect it's because i may have inherited from my own parents something that fits very much in the theme of your book. My father would only ever talk about what he was doing, and he would almost never talks about what he intended to do. And my mother was always celebrating the thing that was happening. She wasn't thinking of out like gang wayt the nevers never came up like. I don't think of either of my parents as being future oriented. They were people. We never discussed to morrow. The whole exercise was just about enjoying each other's company. There was no other ite, was no grand plan. He wasn't trying to get exercise. It didn