Getting to Know Someone Is Like, What's the Fun of Getting to Know Someone?

i have noticed myself lately, like more apprehensive to meet people. I think it's just more the recognition of time. When i was ready in my twenties, i would rather just date the next person,. Cause i wasn'teven to think about geting married. And then at some point it's like, ok, well, what's the marginal benefit of dating one new person? S i get something, but it's not as much as you need get by going deep, ye.