The author is a proponent of backing off. If you're telling people how, who's telling people how they should behave? Because it has no effect on them. So i'm very weary of being sort of this ranting older guy. You have to reach a point where it kind of disgusts you. Yes, you need to say, this isn't good for me. That voice is very strong. But when you have 300 thousand voices in your ear every day on social media telling you, this is the cool thing that i'm doing. Look at me vacationing in tahiti, and i did it because i'm an influencer. Don't you want to be an influ