
Incompatible Relationships—Why some pairings create conflict and instability no matter how much we try to compromise and practice tolerance and understanding.
Dharmapunx NYC
00:00
The Different Types of Attachment Styles
Alec has an anxious attachment style, his desire to get rid of a studio is really masking a desire to get closer to Bianca and not have her disappear as much for long periods every day that are unpredictable. Bianca has an avoidant attachment, the studio is a space for her to disconnect and to get distance from the relationship. So these are what's known as classically incompatible attachment styles. The anxious avoidance, pairing or the disorganized with either an anxious or an avoidance are all classically incompatible attachments even to disorganized people.
Play episode from 14:01
Transcript


