Am I the Asshole for Snacking Eggplant in My Husband's Food?

"My husband has this weird thing with not eating eggplants and bananas because he feels like it would decrease his masculinity and that it's gay to do so," she writes. "So fellas is a kade to eat an eggplant or a banana or a banana so his sisters and I started doing this thing where we'd sneak eggplants into his food as a joke" Her husband stumbled upon the messages after sending one of his sisters a text message from her phone. He was so furious that he even broke the rule that they have put upon themselves to not argue in front of their children.