The Price of Insecurity

In this episode of Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different, we revisit an enlightening conversation with Ken Honda as we dive into the concept of "happy money," a transformative philosophy that fosters a more joyful and harmonious relationship with your finances. In a world where financial success is often measured by the size of one's bank account, Ken Honda, a renowned Japanese author, brings a refreshing perspective on the emotional and relational aspects of money. You’re listening to Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different. We are the real dialogue podcast for people with a different mind. So get your mind in a different place, and hey ho, let’s go.   Ken Honda on Happy Money and the Power of Gratitude Ken Honda introduces the idea of "Happy Money," which he defines as money that brings joy both when it is received and when it is spent. This concept challenges the traditional view of money as merely a tool for transactions. Instead, it emphasizes the emotional impact of money on our lives. One of the foundational principles of Happy Money is gratitude. Ken suggests that when making payments or writing checks, we should say "thank you" to appreciate the opportunity to bless others with financial support. This simple act can transform spending from a burdensome task into a joyful experience.   The Role of Money in Our Lives Christopher points out that many financial books focus on the mechanics of making, saving, or investing money, often neglecting the emotional and relational aspects. Ken agrees, noting that he is often referred to as a "money healer." He explains that many people have a troubled relationship with money, leading to feelings of shame, frustration, and anxiety. Ken emphasizes that this unhealthy relationship with money is a universal issue, affecting people across different cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds. Whether someone is financially challenged, middle class, or wealthy, a lot of them experience negative emotions related to money.   Ken Honda on Money Wounds and Emotional Healing The conversation delves into the concept of "money wounds," which are emotional scars that affect how individuals perceive and interact with money. These wounds can stem from various experiences, such as financial struggles or societal pressures. Ken highlights that even wealthy individuals can feel guilt or anxiety about their financial situations. Christopher shares a story about a wealthy acquaintance who frequently argued with his spouse about finances, illustrating that money does not guarantee happiness. Ken concurs, stating that true security comes from relationships and trust in the future, rather than solely from financial wealth. To hear more from Ken Honda and how to heal your Money Wounds and start your Emotional Healing, download and listen to this episode.   Bio Ken Honda is a bestselling self-development author from Japan, with over eight million books sold since 2001. His work blends financial expertise with self-help principles, offering readers insights into creating personal wealth and happiness. Drawing from his experience owning and managing multiple businesses, Ken’s writings emphasize the importance of self-honesty in fostering financial and emotional well-being. He holds the distinction of being the first Japanese member of the prestigious Transformational Leadership Council. Fluent in Japanese and English, Ken has lived in Boston and currently resides in Tokyo.   Links Connect with Ken Honda! Website | Happy Money | LinkedIn    We hope you enjoyed this episode of Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different™! Christopher loves hearing from his listeners. Feel free to email him, connect on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and subscribe on iTunes!