Are You a Man or a Woman?

I'm thinking abeings who talk about enlightenment and liberation saying that any qualification that you might have is not who you are. And yet, it can go even farther, that we have no qualification whatever, including being a man or a woman. Using the verb to be dehumanizes people. Any time you think of yourself what you are, or what somebody else is, i think you lose the beauty and the awe and the wonder of this living phenomenon. The very label child keeps you from seeing the full humanness of this person a but i still feel thats that's a quality of a liberated human being.