Pleasure Is Collaborative

We have been inculturated to believe that sexuality is possessive and that we should own one another. People get jealous of sex toys because they feel like it's not natural, it's less worthy or valuable. Pleasure is collaborative. We want to work together to create as much pleasure as possible in theather. The solution is you bring your vibrator into playing with your boy friend. But why isn't that just a given, right? Like, i can't make a smoothy with my bare hands,. You use legromaty, right? And we create problems around this because of that hierarchy of orgasms. Every body needs different stimulation for different kinds of pleasure, arousal