How to Love to This Degree?

You are entering this relationship in a selfish manner to use the other as a vehicle to satisfy your own needs. And you're very selfish, and you're very finite. So how can you love to this degree? By the way, have you ever wondered why relationships like i intimate relationships are so hard - especially intimate relationships? This is just the tip of iceberg of that. I'll have an episode in the future just about conscious relationships and what that is like.