The attachment system is a biological mandate, which means for most of us, we'll stay in bad marriages because we can't quit each other. There's just something very sticky about the attachment system that goes beyond reason. It's an existential issue for us. And so we lose our sense of principles. The right thing is no longer the right thing. We need to learn how to be attractive and not use fear, threat or guilt when dealing with difficult people.

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