The Aftermath of Abuse

abuse never happens in a vacuum there is always a setup for how someone gets abused and why what do you mean by a setup talk about this 13-year-old girl with her stepfather or grandfather whatever. Whatever hunger is created in this 13 year old through the absence of care from mom and dad that makes her very susceptible to grandfather's grooming kindness comfort care attention affection etc we wereYou got to remember 13 year olds we long for delight hey I'm 50 I long for delight but especially when I was 13 right? We are made for attention connection affirmation all of that if she's not getting any of that at home she is extremely susceptible to whoever comes along and offers that and so on.