The more that i get judgedy about the way that i look, the more isolated feel in the less good of a person i kind of become in my own head. So what d' you do if you've been taught, or you've learned this lesson that your worth is based on your attractiveness? You should find out who you are. Who you are is not determined by how you're that's why we call one how you're treated, right? How people relate to you. It's a treatment. It's not who you are," he says.