The Importance of Repairing Rupture

There's always a reason why people in the story are doing what they're doing principle seven and then we'll move on to some to a different section repairing rupture is much more important than engaging their story perfectly look there is no way to do this perfectly it's just that's an absurd category. The first step of repair is simply acknowledging that and saying like where are you well I'm thinking about this stuff in my marriage oh how long have you been doing that well at least 45 seconds okay I had no idea  that is a moment of repairThe more quickly you repair the better which means that you want to frequently check in with the story teller to find out like what's happening for