Do You Have a Square Peg in a Round Hole?

Eo: We were talking before the callor the session to day, about tat old metaphor of a square peg in a round hole. And with that black and white thinking, among other things, up on the slopes of reineer, we don't see that the hole is round. If she saw that the hole was actually round and she was square, she would have stopped right there. Eo: The reason why she doesn't see the squareness of herself is because she's not looking at herself. She's just looking at the hole. It's like, ok, i'm woing to do as others a and that's part of the phantasy are ther stopping